"I really do not know what her problem is, she just won't mind her business, I think she just hates me..." You should know that some persons delight in hurting others, it makes them feel good when people feel bad! Such persons can really be frustrating that no matter your effort to live in pace with them, they keep seeking occasion to make trouble.
The more you try to satisfy and make them happy the more they seek to hurt you especially when you get to see them everyday, maybe at your place of work, in your school or neighborhood. Most of these persons are dissatisfied and messed up, they get mad at your smiles and hate you because life seem favourable for you!
They wish they have a simple life like yours even when they have no idea what you go through too, they just wish they never have to go through all they go through and end up taking it out on you or the next person. You have tried to ensure there is peace but the harder you try the more difficult it becomes.
So you tried to be annoying too and reciprocate hate but in return you loose yourself, loose your peace the more and become more upset and confused! As such, they succeed in making you miserable like them. "This is not me, I'm not like this, how did I let her lure me into malice and strife! I know I'm peaceful and I love peace but what in in the world does she want from me, if only she will just let me be..."
You don't learn to be troublesome neither do you give up being you just to get back at somebody. If you do, you simply create an atmosphere of strife, envy and hate in you which never produces anything good! Soon, you will also complain about everything and loose hope in everything and everybody including yourself!
If one is not careful, you allow the people around you determine your mood, interrupt your inner peace and bring out the worst in you. Of a truth, so many persons do not care about how they make you feel nor how bad they hurt you so why give them control over your emotions and allow what they do hurt you?
No matter how frustrating they are, if you learn to ignore them without recognizing or reciprocating their faults, they feel insignificant and frustrated! If you keep complaining and making them the subject matter of every discussion, you give them the right over your joy and peace even your life! Just stop paying attention to them!
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