The Desire For Intimacy Is The Reason For Every Relationship Though, So Many Persons Do Not Realize This!

It's unfortunate many persons go into relationship and even marriage without an idea of why they want it or go into it! We are all created with a yearning and a need to be closely acquitted with someone we call special, we take such a person private or personal rather! We were created that way and this is one basis for marital relationship but people are crowded with so many ideologies and misconceptions about relationship and marriage. 

Therefore, no matter how hard both parties try to make things work out between them, they end up not satisfied with each other because of lack of intimacy and so many unmarried partners misconstrue sex as intimacy! Despite being sexually active yet, they seek satisfaction to no avail and as such they end up frustrated and unhappy!

 In every relationship, so many desires are silent and hidden but with intimacy they become apparent and are taken care of! The relationship we so much fantasize which is seen as "ideal" is not an illusion as so many persons say, intimacy brings your relationship fantasies into a reality! I think I should share this with you!

  To The Man I Love 

Honestly, baby you are a blessing to me! The way you love me amazes me and I keep wondering how you do it! I doubt if anyone else will love me the way you do. To so many people, love is nothing but a delusion but you have made my fantasies come through! Your definition of love is the reality I have enjoyed beyond measure. 

What we share transcends every speculation and theory I know, you've taught me what love is and I can boldly say 'love is beautiful and exceptional!' Thank you for always believing in me, sharing with me, tolerating me, teaching me and allowing me do same for you! The thought of us overwhelms me, I could not have asked for more!

 You are everything I ever prayed and hoped for even when I felt my wishes were unreal, I found them real in you and with you! Loving you is the life I want to leave till death! I love you always! 

From your Valued! kisses!

Beautiful right? Though, some will say it's simply fantasy or fiction but it's not! You too can experience such love!

As I earlier said, we all have an innate need for intimacy and as such we wish for so much when it comes to relationship but most persons seem not to find the right person and relationship remains a puzzle to them! Not because there is no one out there good enough for you nor does it imply weakness on the part of your partner neither does it imply your wishes are unreal. 

Rather, it implies an emptiness due to lack of intimacy which both parties know nothing about either as a result of ignorance or negligence. Intimacy is an atmosphere of closeness and openness towards someone else, not necessarily involving sexuality! It creates an atmosphere for you to know your partner and his needs more and more and he/she gets to know you better as well, it is built and ought to grow!

 In a relationship where there is intimacy, little things take care of themselves spontaneously. The light of many relationships founded on emotional fickle soon burns out leaving both parties wounded and depressed because they wrongly describe intimacy as sex! 

While sex is part of intimacy for the married, the unmarried can as well and should build intimacy on the foundation of trust, purity, patience and care! I do hope you will start building intimacy with your spouse from today! Do not hesitate to drop your questions and opinions! Enjoy the weekend!

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