I Won't Be Wrong If I Say You Are Wicked! You Know Why?

"She called me a wicked person, imagine! When Ieven only trying to make myself comfortable, as if it is now a crime for one to be comfortable and how I'm I suppose to make her feel good about my decisions, moreover I don't even need her to feel good about it..." 

You may not have the intentions of hurting or destroying another person but when you are not considerate you are seen as wicked not because you are intentionally hurting anybody but because you are not kind.

 Kindness may not necessarily mean putting others before you but it means regarding others and the effect of your decisions and actions on them. When you get lost or carried away in your pursuit of a particular thing not considering those that will get hurt or affected especially negatively, you are simply self-centered. 

We will actually find out so many other ways we can do what we want to do and yield better results, if we are sincerely thoughtful about the effects of our decision on those around us. The idea of caring about others naturally does not make most persons smile.

 I don't know about you but for me It's easy to think about myself and just consider what and what I want but at the end of the day we are still not satisfied and others most times are hurting because of our actions. 

Though we cannot consider everyone, it is expected that at least we consider some in that way there will be a fair balance. Meanwhile, it's a wrong ideology some persons have believed that being considerate is an indication of weakness, it is not! 

Rather, some persons that are so self-centered are either having insecurities or inferiority complex, pushing and pushing through with whatever they want is like exercising one's muscles and it gives them a kind of false confidence. Also, it is not discipline as some call it. 

In fact, you will be more effective in  disciplining anyone if you are considerate, if they are aware you have their interest at heart. It does not take much from you instead, it helps you to be more effective as a leader and even as a follower. 

It enhances your relational skills and helps you to be more friendly and approachable! If you must work together with others to achieve a common goal then, the atmosphere must be friendly! 

You can achieve that only when people are sure you care about them and have their interest at heart and not just yours! Be considerate, it will make you a better friend, lover, teacher, leader etc! Have a great day ahead! 

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