It's Awkward When You Always Make Yourself The Focus In Every Conversation...

If we all have to always listen to you talk in every conversation then, you are in trouble already! I mean in every conversation your voice must be heard and it is  dominant, sounding so confident even when you have no idea of what you are talking about! 

Listening is not your thing, you appear to know so much about everything and you are so confident about everything you say. It is either you have a low self-esteem or you lack relational skills!

 Most persons talk too much about themselves to sell their worth to others, they try to make you see them in the light they want you to see them even when you may never see them that way because they are not such!

 They want your admiration and commendations and are ready to convince you with everything they can say, they are simply empty and not even close to the picture they are trying to paint. Like they say "empty vessels make the loudest noise".

 Though, at times it is good you blow your trumpet when no one is doing it for you but it should not be always and with everyone! Making every conversation revolve around you at every point in time is irritating and disgusting! 

You bore your listeners and make them feel foolish for the time they spend talking with you because there is almost nothing to learn from you rather, your attitude is just a show of empty pride and of course they won't be interested in discussing with you next time!

 If actually you are good, you won't need to sell yourself, they will naturally find out, so just be good! Leave yourself out of every conversation and focus on something mutual in that way you will carry your partner along, having his or her full and rapt attention!

 Learn to listen and hear other people out, it makes you wiser, more coordinated and interesting! It's another beautiful Tuesday morning, do have a lovely day! GoodMorningFromIseme

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