My Life Has Become Too Complicated To Be Made Simple I Really Wish Things Are Different For Me...

Many lives are complicated, people are entangled with too many complicated situations. "How did I get myself into this? How did it even happen? How did I become a part of this?..." 

Unfortunately, they keep wishing they never gave their concept, accepted the offer, joined themselves to the crew and all of that but even when they realize where they got themselves entangled they almost never take a bold step to freedom either because they feel it is too late or they really do not know how to go about it!

Meanwhile, most of the cases around us are issues birthed from very little things of little or no significance as one may think and carelessly get involve in one way or the other. How could I have known he had an ulterior motive? 

It was one of  those fun Friday nights and I felt hanging out was a way of relaxation after the stress of the week but from that day, my life never remained the same! Many persons find it difficult to define their boundaries as a result they get into trouble because of laxity. 

For crying out loud, you should not be in some companies, be careful what you do, where you go and who you go with at that moment when you feel you need a break! On the other hand, majority of persons who get their lives complicated are persons who are not satisfied with themselves.

They feel bad about themselves, wish they were someone else or had one thing or the other. They easily walk into traps without knowing, be yourself and love your person, it will save you from a lot trouble! 

Again, be careful of anything free, you might actually pay much more than you will want to pay! Most persons got caught in the web through gifts, it is not as if every gift is aimed at destroying you but then, you must not take things for granted and should not always be carried away, you should learn to say no to some offers. 

Especially when you are not of help to such person in any way, you should not only reciprocate respect but everything good! As such, you will not easily accept a favour you cannot reciprocate in anyway especially when you did not ask for it! 

The bottom line is that one should be careful, decisive and disciplined, do not take take things for granted. Sometimes, you may need to dig beyond the surface and probe every act of kindness! 

Why is he being nice to me? Why is she doing this? How long will he do this? What is he going to benefit? Does it cost her anything? Do I deserve this and on what ground? Could this be detrimental to me in any way?... 

Only a foolish man will jump at every offer without a proper assessment, be wise and save yourself from trouble! Meanwhile, if you are already in trouble, do not die in silence. Speak up, talk to the right person about it. 

Trying to cover up will only sink you deeper into trouble, there is no need hiding anything because in due season it will spill out and by then, so many things would have gone wrong. Right now, you can be free if you want to! Think about it!

GoodMorningFromIseme

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