A PARTNER OR A TOOL?

If all you are to him is a tool...then, he does not deserve you! Are you safe with him? Do you feel threatened by your relationship with him? Does it actually feels right to have him around?  What good has he done since you meant him?... Oftentimes, he makes you prioritize his dreams over yours, he demands your 100% support and gives you none rather, aborts your dreams. He says there is no need for you to be so ambitious. Your enthusiasm dropped ever since you meant him because all he does is to belittle your dreams, discourage you and make you see reasons why you should not bother yourself so much. From the onset you didn't feel so comfortable and safe with him but you thought it was nothing. Maybe you are just been nervous and scared, you decided to face it though his moves and actions threatened you. You over looked the signals and forged ahead hoping it will turn out well! 

Now he extorts you on every side and in every way; your self esteem he has brought so low to the extent you don't see yourself succeeding or even living without him. Sometimes, you wonder what has happened to you, the confidence you once had, your zeal and passion! In the name of love, loyalty and submission you have sacrificed your dignity and pride on a worthless altar! You made him a god over you and offered your will to him and now he determines your mood, your every move, moments and limits you as though you were a prisoner. Imagine loving a fellow with your whole heart, thinking and anticipating a future with him and he only sees you as a means to get things done, an opportunity that should not slip by and he does everything to maximize this so called opportunity without any concern about you nor what you feel or want. 

Not as though you wronged him and he intends to punish you but just that he is so self-centered and will at your expense fulfill his heart desires and gain satisfaction. He proclaim he loves you and his words may be to your hearing as a suiting balm but he is never committed to you nor true to his promises. Any so called partner whose paramount concern is what he or she will benefit at every point in time is not interested in you but in using you! Dear friend, brace up! They say "a broken relationship is better than an enduring marriage". It is not too late to come out of the mess you are in; enough of the deceit and lies, you are too precious to be taken advantaged of by anyone. He who does not know your worth, does not deserve you!

Trust me, there is someone out there who will cherish and adore you, who will bring out the best in you, fan into flames your hidden potential and give you the maximum support you need. One who will not make himself the centre of your relationship but ensure you are a shareholder too. You know what? Your freedom lies on no one but you, break loose and come out of it!

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