Why have you sold your freedom and traded your right in exchange for nothing but slavery? For empty words you traded your self-esteem, you no more have confidence in yourself or what you can do! It is awful how you have lost trust in yourself because someone took advantage of your weakness and you have learnt to continually rely on such person!
Meanwhile, No matter what you tell a man or how you guide him not until you have affected his conviction your impact is short lived! Only the conviction of a man keeps him aright through challenges and pressures of lfe especially in the face of persuasion! Guidance serves as crutches to a man who lacks conviction.
He depends on you, he keeps coming back to you and he expects you to always help him decide or overcome! He keeps learning from you but he never gains knowledge, he remains a child refusing to grow into maturity despite your teaching! The truth is that he never really learnt from you rather, he just depends on you to make his choices and decisions.
For the fact you took interest in an individual and decided to offer some assistances, it does not in anyway gives you the right over his life. Especially when it comes to guidance and counselling, most persons enjoy it and even desire that people become dependent on them in making decisions.
Every man has a choice, teaching or allowing others to always rely on you in making every decision makes them dependent on you! Whereas, living implies functioning and effectiveness in all areas including your ability to choose and decide. Allowing someone else make your choices and decisions for you is allowing such person live mind life.
Don't forget, your life is being directed by the choices you make and the decisions you take. You may be supported at one point or the other yet, you are meant to use your mind! You should exercise your mind without fear or favour, failure to take charge of your life is acceptance of whatever anyone ask you to do or suggest that you do and as well the mistakes and consequences of such suggestions.
Only a man who lacks vision will run with the vision of another! Whether you like it or not they take the glory as your life support while you take the risk and bear the consequences too. When such counsel fail, you engage in blaming people for your failure, you blame it on one person or the other but remember, blames on whichever person is never a solution nor remedy! Therefore, learn, understand and as well appreciate knowledge by application. You should learn to use your mind!
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I totally agree💓
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