Things Will Not Always Be This Way! You Should Be Ready...

It's always rosy and endearing at the beginning with almost little or no friction nor resistance, everything is cool and perfect. So smooth and easy but It is not always going to be like this! Necessity will be laid on you to step up and handle responsibilities, more patience and understanding will be required of you!

Especially when you get married to a partner full of dreams and ambition, you should be ready to double up! You should realize that at the time people get married they most times have little or no achievements compared to their dreams and ambition. So getting married is not a kind of arrival neither does marriage launch one into a stable and a fulfilled life! 

Rather, It is almost at the beginning of a person's pursuit in life. And your partner will of course expect you to be supportive in building and living the life you both desire! In fact, a lot awaits you, so many surprises, challenges and to think of it, it's a scope that will require that you adjust and adjust again and again so as to accommodate all you need to accommodate. 

I'm not trying to make it look scary but I just want to remind you that a lot will be required and that you do not expect things to always be the way they are now! Times will come where you will get no attention nor care instead, you will need to give some care and attention. 

Soon, not just your partner but your kids as well will look up to you and expect you to provide a solution, to step in and make things better and amazing. You will have to sacrifice a lot to ensure the home is in order and everyone is happy. Your partner will not just be the object of your affection but your entire home if not you may not have a good home. 

Your partner will take up new responsibilities and even switch careers, try out new stuffs and all these will sure have effect on you! Sometimes, on your emotions and other times on your decisions and even your reality and your expectations as well. 

But then, you must keep your home, you will have to adjust, the good thing is that if you build a formidable relationship then, none of these changes will take you unaware because you would have talked things over with your partner on every issue in line with a common goal! 

That is why as a couple beyond satisfying each other's need, you both must have a focus or a goal that will serve as a compass and this will help you two in taking hold of opportunities and as well taking decisions that will be favourable to the both of you!

 Your partner is growing, he or she will not remain that girl or boy you meant some years back, like his or her physical features are changing so will the emotional, spiritual, psychology etc change.

There will be times you will have to fight for your love, partner, relationship, home and other times all you will simply need is to believe in your partner and accept him or her especially when you can't help it. At such times "love" will seem burdensome and difficult that you will be tempted to jump out to somewhere else. 

As your partner is growing, your home too will grow and you too will have to grow and ensure your relationship is functional and your home is peaceful. Everything is possible, you only need to grow and make necessary adjustments when you should! Happy weekend!

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