Reviewing the year, so many things happened including betrayals, denials, oppression and the likes. You wish you never confided in him nor asked him for help, he was suppose to defend and protect your interest but he betrayed you... People make mistakes, they step on your toes, break promises and slight you consciously and unconsciously and you do same to others too even without knowing.
At the end of the day, someone is offended, hurt, sometimes filled with regret other times with anger. You just wish some things that happened never did, that you never came across some persons and most of all you wish you were wiser, stronger, smarter and much more. Right now, you feel bad thinking that things would have been better than what it is now if he had kept his promise, if you had done your home work etc.
Feeling bad or regretting will not make things better either. Rather, it breeds discouragement, negativity and low self-esteem. Whatever has happened is in the past, forgive all those who hurt you, forgive yourself too for your own mistakes and let go every offense so you can look ahead. This is no time to dwell on the much you would have achieved that you did not achieve instead, focus on what is ahead and dwell on the things you can and should achieve in the coming year.
Regret sucks, it leaves you depress and makes you indifferent. Meanwhile, unforgiveness is like a chain restricting and limiting you. 2018 is rolling away, see 2019 as another opportunity to get things done, achieve goals and become better! Start now to project 2019!
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This is great.. .
ReplyDeleteThank you Kenneth
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