Woman! Thou Art Skillful And That Makes You A Manager!

He knows quite alright that you are occupied and he even knows how important whatever you are doing is yet, he acts as though he is not aware of any of this. He wants your attention as soon as he needs it which makes you wonder "why is he acting like a kid?" Some ladies get upset "he knows I'm busy, why is he acting as if I'm joking here?" You may try to explain yourself times without number but he still does not get it, he just wants your attention as soon as he needs it. 

This is one reason ladies feel men like to boss women around with this attitude of "drop every other thing and attend to me". Unlike your thoughts and feelings, he knows you are busy not just uselessly busy but busy doing something important and he also does not really see you as his subject nor subordinate whom he lord's it over. Rather, he sees you as a woman, one who has the ability to organize and manage things and issues ensuring the best outcome. 

He actually feels you can do so many things at a time, that you know how well to augment and make up for everything and every time spent. On the other hand, every man likes his woman to feed his ego! Not as though you are his subject nor slave but that you acknowledged and accord him due respect. He enjoys it when you honour him, it makes him feel like a king and a god and you know what? 

In return, he expresses his joy in loving you more though, there are exceptions to everything. My point of emphasis is this, do not be upset with him when he seeks too much of your attention instead, let the manager, homemaker and lover in you arise and step up to the demands of your king. How are you suppose to do this? In as much as you are not upset but positive about it, even when it is stressful, you will find a way to manage your relationship. 

Yes! Your relationship! Because little things like this cause the cracks on the wall of most relationships and sooner than they expect such little little things result in resentment and hatred. Responding positively to him gives you an edge and even grants you an advantage of having him join you in whatever it is you were doing. Here comes the power of a woman *winks* just know that you can manage your man like you will manage every other thing and in fact, he wants you to manage him! 

To manage your man does not mean to control him nor dictate for him but to handle him with skill and ease while treating him with care. Meanwhile, the word "skill" simply means dealing with him with understanding! You will begin to enjoy him and your relationship that moment you allow the manager in you to arise. Why not give it a try this weekend! 

Happy weekend!

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