Speculating The Past or The Future! Which Is Better?

Wishing that it never happened or it happened in a different way won't change what has happened! It's unfortunate that some persons regret the past so much that the future takes them unaware, without any effort or preparation to make things different, they allow their past consume and limit them. 

Regrets result in discouragement  and leaves a victim hopeless. Hope has nothing to do with your past but your future therefore, refuse to be stuck in your past, stop giving so much thought to what would have happened if things were different from what they are. "What if I was not born into this family? What if my father was alive? What if I was not sacked?

 What if I never married him? What if I never walked away?..." Would life have been any better for you, if things had gone contrarily? Maybe yes, life would have been better but now it's late to change what has happened! History has been made but the interesting thing is that every time spent and every yesterday adds up to history.

 Everything that is happening to you now will soon become history as well therefore, taking charge of your today is taking charge of your tomorrow's history. No matter how we summon the past with so many "what ifs" it makes no difference since we cannot change a thing about the past.

 Instead of imagining the possibilities of the past which are no longer valid, visualize the possibilities of the now and the future. The past has been created consciously or unconsciously, right now, you can only create the future! What if i take a course? What if I marry her? What if I change jobs? What if I start the trade? What if I apologize to her? What if I try something else?...

 What are you proposing for the future? There are no more possibilities in the past but there is so much you can take hold of for the future. So put the past behind you and focus on the future! You can do so much about the future but there is so little in fact there's nothing you can do about the past. 

Investing so much to discover the possibilities for today and for the future is worth it but putting so much into the past is nothing but misuse of time and energy! Stay focus! There is a glorious future ahead of you! 

GoodMorningFromIseme

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