Learning To Be Me Even When I'm Often Tempted To Be Another!

Have you ever asked yourself the question, who I'm I? I guess you have, times without number! And I have asked myself the same question too, so many times. What was your answer to the question? Were you able to define and identify yourself? Most times, we fail to answer the question while other times we simply pass by it because we are not comfortable with the persons we are. 

But are we really not happy being the persons we are or we just don't know who we are? One common mistake people make is to define themselves base on their circumstances and situations which are only temporal. You hate your present condition not yourself and whatever it is you are experiencing, you are meant to go through and who you are determines if you will come through or not! 

Sometimes, you drift to your left or right trying to find 'you' in some other places apart from where you are. The farther you drift to the left or right the farther you drift away from you! Who are you really? What exactly do you want? Failure to get answers leave us in a dilemma of who we should be like. 

Unfortunately, no matter how hard one tries, one can never make the story of another person his or her own story. You may have a role model in your career, for your life style but there is no one who is exactly like you because everyone is unique. Although, there is nothing new and the experiences are similar yet, they are only a part of your uniqueness. Yes! 

The circumstances and situations of life is obviously not so different for everyone, every person seem to share the same lot but then, the life of each person is still unique, different and unusual because of our different seasons and times, different opportunities and privileges, different backgrounds and of course our individuality/instinct which defines our uniqueness. 

There is no need beating up yourself because you failed to fit into the person you are not simply because you are not comfortable with the person you are presently even when the best person you can be is you! Stop limiting yourself by what you see around you, you are far more than that. From today, decide to determine your situation instead of allowing your situation determine you! 

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