More Than A Pretty Face, Beyond The Boobs And Butts! How Supportive Are You?

Gone are those days when you think with a pretty face and a figure eight you can get and keep the man of your dreams.You may easily get a man's attention with all that but how long can you keep him? Frankly speaking, a man is moved by what he sees but on the contrary he is not carried away and even when he is, often time it turns out that all he wants is a sex partner. 

A man is so sensitive and easily aroused by everything pleasant to his eyes but his heart is too logical to respond. The way to a man's heart is far beyond everything he sees that arouses him. Every man has a need and it takes a woman who will not only identify such need but also meet it to discover the path to his heart. Facial beauty, boobs and butts are all temporal and serves only for fun but lacks the ability and capacity to handle the responsibility and reality that comes with a relationship. 

No matter how carefree a man maybe, he is conscious of his responsibilities as a man even when he tries to shy away from them, they keep hurting him. Despite the smiles and the fun, deep down in him there is a struggle, a strive for survival and success and not until a woman identifies with him at this level she has no idea what he is going through. This struggle, whatever or however it maybe is the actual definition of a man. He needs someone to share with, one that will identify with him in his reality. 

This struggle or reality includes his dreams and challenges, his mistakes and mess, his worries and fears, lack and desperation... He needs a partner, lover, friend, mother...not just a lady with a pretty face. The question is, as a lady in what way can you be of help to him? Do you have wise and useful counsel to offer? Do you have an outstanding intellect? How smart are you? Are you financially OK? Will you be supportive and stand by him? Do you even know what it means to be a responsible wife or you just need a man who will shoulder your responsibility alongside his? 

Some men may be too proud to ask for the assistance of a lady or even share their worries with a lady just to protect their ego. They always want to be in charge as a result, they go all the way by themselves, shutting out their ladies from the struggle they face. In no time they wear out and become frustrated and aggressive. But a supportive lady will know how well to be of help to her spouse without bringing down his ego. 

Not as if it is a crime to be pretty and have a good shape but that as a lady you should be ready to add value to the lucky man who will have you or that has you. Even the bible says beauty is vain... Therefore, build yourself and be a woman of substance, value, worthy and satisfying. It's a beautiful weekend, you should do something special with your spouse *winks* Happy weekend!

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