Every Relationship Driven By Self-interest And Greed Is Unfruitful!

"...Funny enough, it seems I am lucky when it comes to having nice guys because Williams is honestly an amazing guy and Nelson on the other hand is an angel but I just can't stay in a relationship for more than six months! 

At the beginning I always find these guys interesting and fun but soon everything becomes boring and sometimes irritating even! I wonder how people stay in a relationship for years not to even talk of marriage, it scares me! 

I might just wake up one morning and tell him I need a divorce. I mean, how can one sustain that fire that is so irresistible at the beginning?..." 

Many people especially ladies keep walking out of relationships in spite of how good or awesome their partners are for the sole reason that they are bored! 

And you wonder why some persons are just too difficult to please or why they cannot just be satisfied! 

What keeps two together beyond the confession "I love you" and what have you, is fruitfulness! If all there is to your relationship is fun, fun and fun then, in no time you will be worn out! 

As individuals, we naturally need and demand more even without knowing! A fruitful and worthy relationship makes us better persons, gives us the courage and strength to face our fears and serves as a cushion in shock and terror! 

Life is much more real and tasking than those times of awesome staring, whispering of sweet nothing, holding of hands and all of that! 

Life is demanding, challenging and fierce and not until your relationship plays a role in maintaining stability and focus then, it is unfruitful and will definitely not pass the test of time! 

The reality of life is the true test of a worthy relationship! In what way are you of help to him? Do you honestly share his vision and goals? What about his challenges and fears? Or are you just there to give him a massage and go hanging out? He needs much more than that.

He needs someone to complete him, he needs someone to help, support and encourage him! If you sincerely give attention to the things that matter and are purposeful, you will be too engrossed and useful to get bored! 

If your interest is to complement him then, you will seek out ways to help even if it's just to be an encouragement to him and as such, your zeal and passion will remain intact! 

Many persons become bored as a result of self-interest and greed, they are just too concerned about themselves and what they can get out of the relationship therefore, they always experience a diminishing satisfaction with time! 

The euphoria they experienced initially disappears in the face of reality! A relationship that lacks reality is one without direction and purpose and will definitely not last! 

Purpose drives your passion and zeal, don't just be in a relationship be purposeful about it and do not be selfish! Good morning and happy weekend!

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