One Of The Things That Have Elevated Or Limited You So Far, Is The Friends You Keep!

One aspect of life people take for granted which has so much impact in our lives is friendship! To a great extent, the outcome of our lives is determined by the friends we keep. Friendship is one of the greatest influence in life that is why it is paramount that you choose your friends. They play a very significant role in your life, they shape your mind, influence your decisions, help in a actualizing or frustrating your dream. 

In most cases, your friends are the masterminds of your life because you confide in them and discuss your plans with them, you consider their opinions and suggestions and as well rely on their support. In a situation where you have myopic, selfish and exploitive friends, they become a snare to you instead of being a shoulder to lean on! Sacrifice is the bed rock on which friendship is established! 

Sacrifices entails given up something valuable for the sake of another, what are friends for? If they cannot go out of their way because of you then, you should reconsider if actually they are your friends or not. Not everyone you call friend actually has your interest at heart, some will even sabotage your effort no matter how hard you try. In your review for 2018 and your plans for 2019, if you do not reconsider your friendship you will struggle to actualize your plans for 2019 since they will influence your decisions and actions in one way or the other.

 Talking about you, what exactly have you done for friendship sake? Have your friends ever said to you "you saved things today, you saved my ass, thank God you were there, if not for you, thank you so much for standing by me, what would I have done without you?..." If not you should check yourself, you cannot be selfish and expect to have friends who are generous! Some friends simply extort you, devalue you and make life miserable and complicated, you should run away from such and as well ensure you are not such.

Begin now to identify those persons or person who has given so much for you, care, time, wise counsel, encouragement, money and other things. Those who believe in you and do not talk you down instead, they spur you into action and stand by you through it all! It takes a whole lot to be that kind of friend and that is why you cannot have multitude as friends. Friendship has the capacity to make life beautiful and interesting! 

Sacrifice create an atmosphere of love, care and safety and it naturally brings a person close to you. Such a person finds it easy to open up to you because he is sure you will stand by him even in his mess! Only you can tell how helpless and troubled he can be, before you he is vulnerable without any effort to defend himself. He weeps and sobs like a baby without shame nor fear even when you cannot help yet, he finds you a reliable succor! 

He is not scared to share his plans and victory with you because you are supportive. Sacrifices births trust and friendship is established! Who are your friends and whose friend are you? This is dedicated to all my friends who have made life beautiful and interesting for me! Thank you so much for being there for me! I congratulate everyone for making it to this day, 31st December 2018 because He lives we will also celebrate together this time next year! 2019 in view, Happy New Year...

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